Friday, August 12, 2016

Koopa Troopa

When we decided to take the job that brought us to Pueblo, we used the book, Alexander, Who's Not (Do You Hear Me? I Mean It!) Going to Move by Judy Viorst to help the kids cope with the emotions of leaving their beloved home town. In the book, Alexander is consoled for having had to move away from everyone and everything he knows with a new puppy in his new house. We had thought that the time might be right to get a dog soon, but that book really got the wheels turning in our minds. As we pursued the dream of home ownership in Pueblo, in our minds all the time was the idea that if we got a house, we could have a dog, and the felicity of that picture made up a part of the charm of this house.

While we were still tossing the idea around, the kids decided on the name they'd give to a dog if we were to be able to have one. We name pets after villains in our family (the cats are "Grendel" & "Dragon" after all) but everyone knows dogs aren't as villainous as cats. So the dog would have to have the name of a more benign villain.

After weeks of waiting for a home inspection from the Denver-based org we chose, and after the chain of communication finally connected us with a suitable candidate, and after we were finally able to make a trip, as a family, to Denver, we were finally, last weekend, able to bring our puppy home.
He is six months old and his name is Koopa Troopa! Yes, after these:

I wanted a lab, because, though I'm not a dog person across the board, I've always been charmed by the positive energy in a labrador. 
Koopa is a lab mixed with... something short-legged. But his low-key and loving personality made him a match for our family's needs.
Everyone says he looks like a "wiener dog." I think he looks like a lab, but with legs about half the length that they should be!

His foster mom thought probably his father was a basset hound. I prefer this explanation. Jon and I used to dream of adopting a basset hound, so a basset-lab mix would pretty much be a dream combination.

Basically, don't tell me he's a wiener dog. He's a lab mixed with a mystery, as Miles likes to repeat.

All the way home from Denver to Pueblo (about 2 hours' drive), Koopa lay calmly in the back seat and accepted the kids' pets.
It was like some kind of lite version of bringing a new baby home (though MUCH, much easier and less emotionally intense) to show him around those first few days.

Isn't he handsome??

He came at just the right time: just when summer vacation had the kids literally climbing the walls...
...and just before I was too overwhelmed by the beginning of my (last) semester of grad school.

Perfect timing, buddy!

We're wearing him out.
And he's fitting right in. He has so far destroyed nothing, nor has he peed or pooped on anything he shouldn't. He's walking on the leash, playing with us in the evenings, and sleeping all night in his crate- provided the crate is located where he can see Jon or me.
I'm getting outside a lot more and getting more exercise than I know what to do with. The good thing though, is that the tiredness is easier to handle in the Colorado sunshine than it would be indoors!
Adele's dreams have come true. She's always wanted this arrangement:
The cats are handling it better than expected. They have even been known to allow themselves to appear in the same room as the dog, from time to time!

He's done a lot for all of our moods.
He even keeps us company while we exercise indoors!

Koopa not only gets me exercise, but he gets me alone time. I need this badly, after an entire summer of full-time parenting!
Yesterday, Jon and I agreed: this dog couldn't have been more perfect for us, and we can't believe it hasn't even been a week since came home with us.
Koopa is another blessing afforded by our move, reminding us that God has indeed strewn every path with gifts. We have a relationship. I may never be exactly a dog person, but I am a Koopa person. 

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

Old Fashioned Fun

Last week was a week we spent concentrating on potty training. When Adele was successful, she'd get to choose where we spent the afternoon. Twice she chose to spend it here, at the El Pueblo History Museum. She has good taste.
On Monday, it was free. On Wednesday, it was back to the usual summer fee: $5 for student me, $0 for children.

I feel like they're practically paying us to come.

Corn husk doll day!
Making adobe brick day!


On Tuesday night, the zoo was open late. I recommend going to the zoo on a summer's evening if at all possible! The animals are active and the evening sunshine doesn't glare so badly. And eating dinner next to the lion family is a pretty good time.
That was the first time I'd seen the Pallas Cat out of hiding




The rainbows are at an epidemic level this summer!

Sometimes when we walk the neighborhood I see houses wanted to buy, most of which were sold before we got to Pueblo to look. Not one of them has made me regret the house we got. In this neighborhood, to have a school and a church across the street makes for some peaceful front porch sitting. 
Back at the Pueblo History Museum, I practiced making El Movemiento signs.
Adele learned the rules of checkers:
We stopped at the downtown library again...

And finished out the week by buying a dog crate, collar, leash, toys and puppy food! Really, not a bad ending for the week. 

Coming up: our first days with our first dog!

Thursday, August 4, 2016

Big, Long 2016 Summer

We are having a thorough summer! The move actually lengthened it for the kids, who finished early in Blacksburg and start late in Pueblo.

More time for mid-day couch-cushion forts and flashlight reading!

More time to earn household helper stars!

More time for rides at the park!



More time for new hobbies! The kids love kinda yoga, the cheese animal-based yoga program on Amazon prime.
More time to check in with our friends at the Pueblo Zoo:



More time for family outings to the Nature Center:
We've had an unusual number of cloudy days around here! It always feels odd to step outside and not be blasted with sun arrows.

This time, we didn't bother with the raptors and instead took a nature walk. We saw rabbits, hummingbirds, enormous ants, osprey chasing other birds, a few cool songbirds, lizards and snakes! And we speculated about paw prints on the river bed.
The difference in the palette on the river, versus the scrubby desert hills just a short distance from the river, is striking and beautiful.

There was so much peace in the hills, on a day that was cloudy and yet starkly dry and warm. Enchanting.
We watched this guy's meanderings for a while:

On a day to day basis, I'm spending most mornings at home these days, desperately trying to get Adele potty trained. It's uphill trying to convinced the world's stubbornest four year old to do ANYTHING she doesn't want to do. And she does not want to use the potty! In either capacity! She has had one hospitalization for constipation and two UTIs (one of which warranted about the strongest antibiotic they give kids) just this summer. This is urgent and exhausting in a way that reminds me of trying to sleep train Miles. It just doesn't seem possible. Pray for us!

But we get out, especially when Adele has early morning potty success. I'm coming around to King Sooper's, which I discovered labels their Soda Aisle, "Pop." 

We go to playgrounds, to the pool, to the zoo for storytime, and to our local branch library. It's really a very good summer, as I have the time not only to enjoy being with my kids but to work on my own needs. I'm back to daily yoga, I'm meditating regularly, and really making mental health strides. Health was my theme for 2016, and despite not having reached optimal health I've made a lot of progress. 

Oh, and we did this last weekend:

I can't believe it's August, but I also can't believe there are still 2 and a half weeks before classes at VT begin, and THREE AND A HALF WEEKS before schools starts for the kids. This is a totally different life rhythm. I've learned to be okay with more video games than previously, less frenetic cleaning, less Productivity, fewer outings-- and more peace. Because I can't do Full Time Parent the way I used to do Weekend Parent. I'll just break. 

There is loneliness. There's some ennui. Steppin' Out is this weekend, and it would have been our seventh time there. Steppin' Out 2010 was our first weekend in Blacksburg. Our church is small and doesn't seem to have a lot of people our age (thought, as Jon always reminds me, there's always lower attendance in summer). I'm not sure where to meet anyone with similar interests, especially while caring for the kids full time. 

But there's also joy and exciting milestones (for the kids and for me) and hope. Lots and lots of hope. 

There is truly (and literally) never rain without a rainbow here.